In a previous article we already talked about the false concepts of love, and we explain how love does not last a lifetime, and we also explain how the years can also play against a relationship, and if you are one of the women who says I don’t love my husband anymore, this article may be useful to you.
In general, when we start a relationship, it is very common to think that this is something that should last a lifetime, and that ending a marriage or relationship is the worst thing you can do.
But if in truth you don’t love your husband anymore, I think the worst thing is that you only tolerate a relationship by not having enough courage to end a relationship. And since this article is about helping you as a woman, here I will talk about several things that can clarify the picture a little more.
I no longer love my husband and I want to leave him. Is it the right thing to do?
For reasons of life I know what it feels like to be in a relationship that does not satisfy you, I know what it is to be next to a man who does not provoke a bad thought, I know what it feels like to think that perhaps you made the biggest mistake of your life, ending up married to that man.
But the reality of the matter is that today we as a society are not designed to try to fix things, and when we notice the first challenge in the relationship, we think that things no longer have a solution.
And here I will talk about several points that you should take into account, before ending with your husband.
Analyze what it was that led you to think that you no longer love him
I am more than sure that if now you say that you don’t love your husband anymoreIt’s because something happened in the relationship, maybe he was unfaithful to you, several problems have happened that have destroyed the relationship, in short, you must have an explanation of what led you to no longer feel anything for him.
And if the mistakes or situations that they have had to overcome or endure have been very serious, and that have destroyed the relationship, I think it is more than logical that you no longer feel anything for your husband. Because everything has a limit friend.
And if nothing has a solution, then surely ending the relationship may be the healthiest thing to do.
Talk to your husband
If you are now determined what you don’t love your husband, but you haven’t tried anything yet to do something to save the relationship, I don’t think you should take things so seriously.
Because when thinking about ending the relationship with your husband, the best thing you can do is talk to your husband so that he knows that things in the marriage are not right.
I do not know if you know, but for a man it is very difficult to differentiate when things are good in the relationship and when they are bad, and if you have not taken the time to explain what you are going through, it is very difficult for things to change , and have him do something about it.
You must also accept that, if they have reached this point, it is because communication in the relationship is very bad, and I recommend you before making any decision, talk to your husband.
Seek the help of a couples therapist
If the marriage It has lasted many years and they have had very good times, and they also have children, I think they deserve to seek the help of a professional to know what you can do.
I have already said it in other articles, that nobody explains or teaches us how a relationship works, and having very little knowledge on the subject, is where we fail.
If at talk to your husband He also recognizes that things between the two are not right, and they can go to a couples therapist, believe me it could be one of the best decisions they can make, because only in this way can they have a point of view of a person they know about the topic.
Before making a final decision on whether ending the relationship is the best, I want you to apply the 3 previous points, and if nothing changes, I think that now everything will depend on you.
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